I was recently informed by my daughter, that her husband does not want my four year granddaughter to stay with me the weekend of our family Christmas party. Apparently because of my condition ( mind you only acquired since Sept) he feels it is not safe for her to be with me without her mom present. My daughter is not allowed, by her husband, to stay the night anywhere except HIS moms.
He is a very controlling person.
This has left me very upset and depressed. I have worked hard the last two months to walk better so it would be easier for me to handle my grandchildren when they come to stay with me.
I think you should tell your daughter to get a backbone and speak up and not to bring that dork to the house. If it escalates she can then deal with it right.
Because I walk with a cane, and cant keep my balance. My fiance and I live together and he is wonderful with my grand kids, but my son-in-law is ignorant about people with disabilities. The issue is under" consideration", as my daughter put it.
What is your son-in-law teaching your granddaughter? He's showing her that you need to stay away from people that use canes/walkers/wheelchairs or any other assistive devices. He's showing her how to be prejudice against people with disabilities.
I think HE'S afraid of your cane and using your granddaughter as an excuse.