Someome asked about giving up your independence. I have aCPA (through hesitate to ask for support. SS) that comes in several hours a week to help me. She gives me a bath, does laundry, etc. I don't feel uncomfortable haveing her and I'm really glad for her support.

I think that's great Jane! Having a caregiver helps preserve your energy to do other things! As long as you feel comfortable and are glad for her support, that's all that really matters! ;o)

You always find the right words Rose - my thoughts exactly but couldnt put it into words.. well done.

Best wishes Jane x